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4 Letters from John Bolinger’s Dad to his Parents, from Patterson Army Air Base, 1942
In this letter Dad asks about his twin brother Eddie and Eddie’s wife Marge, and older brother Jesse and Jesse’s wife Bee. Vi (Violet) was their younger sister. Even simple things like a pack of cigarettes or a candy bar was a luxury for most soldiers, But Grandma and Grandpa Bolinger tried hard to send whatever they could to make life a little easier for their son Elwood (my dad). I’ll include a photo of Bonnie (my mom) with Aunt Marge at the beach in 1944 and a photo of Dad and two of his army buddies. Dad is on the right. Uncle Eddie was serving in the United States Navy while Dad was in the army.
Oct. 19, 1942
Army Air Base
Patterson Field
Fairfield, Ohio
Dad wrote this on his 21st birthday. I’m including a photo of Mom with Dad’s friend Hyram from 1943, and two photos of Mom that I believe were instrumental in Dad’s proposing to her later in 1944. JB
Nov. 30, 1942
Battle Creek, Mich.
Dec. 14, 1942
Battle Creek, Mich.
In this letter my father reveals himself to have been more of a prankster than I ever imagined he could be. He also gives some description of the barracks itself.
Jan. 10, 1943
Battle Creek, Mich.
Dear Mom and Dad,
I received those Camels and I sure do appreciate them. I was about out and had no more money for any. I signed the pay roll today, so I guess I’ll get paid the 30th.
How are you today? I just wrote to you yesterday, but I want to write another letter. It will be a short one, as I am almost out of words already. I got a letter from Eddie & Marge, and one from Jesse & Bee today. I sure was glad to hear from them. Tell Vi to write again soon. I may write to her this evening, but I’m not sure. I have to study my handbook as we are going to have a test on the first 3 chapters and everyone who doesn’t pass gets K.P., and I sure don’t want any more than my share of that.
Oh yes, a plane crashed here this morning while it was coming in for a landing. It was coming in swell and all of a sudden it just nosed right down. It didn’t burn and the mend weren’t hurt, so it ws OK. They were shaken up though.
I signed the payroll today so I guess I’ll be able to look forward to a guitar.
Say, Mom, could I ask a favor of you? Could you send me a couple of pairs of shorts and 2 shirts and some Lux? I hate to ask you to do that but I can’t wear thee G.I. shorts any longer. I’m 28 in the waist and these are 40. I was going to send them to Pop but I find I’ll have to keep them for inspection.
The sergeant came through here this morning after we were called and took the names of all the men who weren’t up. Every one of them has K.P tomorrow. Nice, huh? I was up but it’s a wonder.
Well I guess I’ll have to close for now but I hope there is a letter on the way for me. I sure miss you.
Lots of love,
Elwood
Bye for now.
I’ll write again soon.
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Dad wrote this on his 21st birthday. I’m including a photo of Mom with Dad’s friend Hyram from 1943, and two photos of Mom that I believe were instrumental in Dad’s proposing to her later in 1944. JB
Dear Mom and Dad,
I’m sorry I haven’t written to you in the past few days, but I’ll try to write at least every other day now, OK?
Dad, I’m sorry I didn’t get back in time to see you before you went to the lodge. Bonnie got out of the store a little late and that was why we didn’t get there on time. We had to stop at her house for just a minute, and then we came on home.
I sure had a swell time while I was home. I wanted to be home for Thanksgiving so bad, and was sure happy when i got to come. Now all I have to do is worry about X-mas. If I get home then, I could never ask for anything more.
How is everything? Just fine, I hope. Did Uncle John get to go home yet?
Well, I didn’t get paid today. When I went in after my money, I found out I was red-lined. By that I mean I won’t get my money for at least ten days and maybe not until the 17th or 18th. Some fun, huh? I forgot to put my middle initial in my signature when I signed the payroll.
We had an accident here about 4:30 this afternoon. A plane crashed on the field. It nosed into the ground while landing. The pilot was shaken up a little, but otherwise OK. I have had it pretty easy for the past day and a half. I haven’t been on guard duty but I may be tomorrow. I don’t know yet.
The records in the office were all mixed up, so they called us in to be interviewed so they could reclassify us. I was hoping I would get out of this guard squadron but when I got in there, what should they want me to do but go into supply. They saw on my record that I had two years in parts. I told them I wanted engine repair, so I don’t know how I’ll come out. I suppose in the end, I’ll be in the supply station, because they have enough mechanics.
Tell Jesse & Bee and Eddie & Marge I said “Hello,” will you? I’ll have to close for now but I sure hope I get a letter from you tomorrow. Bye for now.
With love,
Elwood
P.S. I sure do think the world of this little pocket testament. I’ve started to read it, and I’m going to read it from cover to cover. Thanks a million.
Bye now.
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Dear Mom & Dad,
How are you? I’m just dandy. We have been working longer hours, but they are making us drill two hours a day now, and we can really feel it. We are all feeling a little better. We are still in school and will be for a few weeks yet. The things they are on are still the simple things in the basic work of an army vehicle, and some of us know that stuff, so we get to fool around a little just like we used to do in high school. I really like it.
Well, enough about us, how is everything there at home? Why am I not receiving mail from Eddie & Marge, and Jesse & Bee, and Vi? Tell them when you see them that when I come home, “I’m going to turn them every way but loose.”
Dad, have you been able to stay away from a cold? I imagine pretty near everyone has one because of the weather. I hear you got a “C” gas rationing card and I sure was glad to hear that. Now you will be able to continue your work and your duties in the lodge and not have to worry about when you can be there next. Say, Dad, that reminds me, The Masonic Temple here in Battle Creek have put aside two nights a week for us fellows to come into their bowling alleys and use them for recreation for ourselves. they are letting us use them free of charge. I don’t believe anything ever satisfied this bunch quite so much as this has. We are going to get up a team and challenge the 1800th Ordinance. Our commanding officer has also arranged for us to use a swimming pool every Tuesday evening. Isn’t that swell?
Well, I’m sorry this isn’t a very long letter, but I’m running out of words. I’ve been telling you I would write you a long letter, and one of these days I will. Bye for now.
Your loving son,
Elwood
(Thanks again for that money and those cigarettes. They sure helped a lot.
Tell Bonnie I said “Hi.”
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In this letter my father reveals himself to have been more of a prankster than I ever imagined he could be. He also gives some description of the barracks itself.
Battle Creek, Mich.
Dear Mom & Dad,
How are you? Just fine, thanks. Well, here I am in the little old green barracks sitting on my (concrete) bunk writing. Things are pretty dreary here today because everyone is in town. I would like to have gone, but as you know, I was confined to the area for three days. (I’ll learn to straighten my bunk someday maybe). I’ve had quite a lot of fun right here at the barracks these last 3 days. Last night we folded up the corporal’s cot while he was in town. we weren’t satisfied with that, so we put his mattress on the rafters like they did that bunk last week (remember?). He was so mad when he came in that he tried to make us get up and scrub the barracks. We didn’t do it, because he couldn’t prove who the ones were that had done it. There were five of us that actually did the work, but the rest of the guys that were here supervised the job. then on the third bunk from mine, we had one of his covers and wet the ropes on his barrack bags and used them to tie his bed roll fast to the head of his bed. By the bed roll I mean his comforter, because we have to roll it up and put it on the foot of the bed. When he came in, he cussed like a trooper. I’m going to be afraid to leave my bunk the next time i go to town. I’ll be back in a minute. I have to go to chow.
I’m back and the food was terrible. They don’t have a good meal on Sunday evenings, because there are so many men gone.
say, I have some good news for you. Do you remember I told you I was getting a 7-day furlough? Well, I’m getting ten days. We have figured it to start Feb. 2. Of course, that may be wrong, but I believe that is when it will start. Gee whiz, just think, me being home for 10 days. Nobody will get any rest will they? (I won’t stay out so late, because I’ll have more time, OK?)
Well Dad, this ding busted watch stopped the other day. I didn’t drop it. It just quit running. I’m going to bring it home and leave it there, then I know it won’t get wrecked. Maybe I jarred it playing the games here at camp. I don’t know. It only runs when I do.
How is everything there at home? I sure hope everything is all right. I sure wish I were there with you again like we used to be. Boy I sure used to be a heck of a guy to keep track of, wasn’t I?
We are finally going to go through the gas chamber tomorrow afternoon. It is a big chamber filled with tear gas. You go in it with your gas mask on and after you have been in ti for a while, you take your mask off. They do that to show you that your mask will protect you. I hear that when you take your mask off, you really make tracks to get out of there (no doubt).
I had my overcoat and the coat to my uniform cleaned and pressed, and I also had my trousers and shirt cleaned and pressed. They sure look swell. Now I’m going to have my trousers taken in at the waist, then my whole outfit will be OK.
Well, I guess I’ll close for now but I hope you write to me soon. Bye for now and be careful.
Your loving son,
Elwood
I’m going to write to Jesse and Bee and Eddie & Marge today.
I’m getting old in this outfit. I’m even beginning to smoke a pipe. Write soon.
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World War II Letters of John Bolinger’s Dad: letter 2
| Dad, right, with 2 Army buddies |
In this letter Dad asks about his twin brother Eddie and Eddie’s wife Marge, and older brother Jesse and Jesse’s wife Bee. Vi (Violet) was their younger sister. Even simple things like a pack of cigarettes or a candy bar was a luxury for most soldiers, But Grandma and Grandpa Bolinger tried hard to send whatever they could to make life a little easier for their son Elwood (my dad). I’ll include a photo of Bonnie (my mom) with Aunt Marge at the beach in 1944 and a photo of Dad and two of his army buddies. Dad is on the right. Uncle Eddie was serving in the United States Navy while Dad was in the army.
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The World War II Letters from my Father, by John Bolinger
Fairfield, Ohio October 4, 1942
Dear Mom and Dad,
How are you? How is everything going? OK, I hope.
I’m writing from a different place this time. We were shipped here yesterday. When we arrived here yesterday, they gave us the evening off, but we couldn’t leave the grounds. I went down and called Bonnie, and tonight, if I can, I’m going to call home.
We have our uniforms now, and they really give you a mess of clothes. I have 2 barrack-bags full. Here is what they give you: 2 pairs of shoes, 3 ties, 2 pants o.d., 2 shirts o.d., 2 pants summer, 2 shirts summer, 2 pants work, 2 shirts work, 1 uniform coat, 1 over coat, 1 rain coat, 6 pair of socks, 3 towells, 4 handkerchiefs, 1 pair leggings, 1 cap o.d., 2 summer caps, 2 work caps, 1 razor, 1 comb, 1 canteen, knife, fork and spoon, mess kit, 1 cup metal, 2 blankets, 2 barrack bags, 1 comforter (no pillow, phoey) 4 pairs of shorts, 2 shirts, 1 field jacket coming yet. How is that for an outfit?
We are sleeping in tents now, and it is cold, WOW! I think tonight I’ll wrap the mattress around me.
Bonnie told me last night that you have been calling back and forth, and I think that is swell. I wish I was there.
How is the mill, Dad? Still as hard as ever, I imagine. Is the little cherry still running?
I am hoping we will be stationed pretty soon so that we can settle down. If we do, I may be lucky enough to get a furlough in a couple of months. Maybe even a month and a half. I sure hope I get to come home around Christmas.
Well, I guess I have to close for now, but please write. Love, Elwood
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Letters from my Father, by John Bolinger
Dad was inducted into the United States Army September 30, 1942. His first letter home to his parents was October 4 of that year. Dad was only twenty years old, had never been away from home, and faced, along with his comrads in arms, one of the most daunting conflicts in human history over the next four years. The word “home” to him took on a deeper significance every day during the war, and I believe that this phenomenon has not changed during the past seventy years. Our soldiers stationed in Iraq and Afghanistan are still powerfully moved by the word “home.” The letters Dad wrote early in the war show a deep attachment to his Indiana home. Subsequent letters keep that devotion but also show more of the anxiety of that terrible time in our history. JB
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Time Capsule in Two Old Hat Boxes: Letters from my Father, by John Bolinger
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| Dad, age 18, 1939 |
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| Mom, age 18, 1943 |
Whenever possible I will include photocopies of the actual letters and the cartoons, holiday cards, and photos that Dad included in them along the way. One irony may be that I am sending out to the world through my computer pieces of a past long gone, pieces that cannot be Twittered or texted easily but which may create those same feelings of connection we all try for daily but so seldom achieve.
We live in an age of “instant” communication through iPhones, computers, texting, and Tweeting. Some people feel the need to be in constant communication with the world through cell phones, which they keep attached to their ears almost at all times. It is ironic too that in a world that is becoming more crowded, noisier, and more mechanized on a daily basis, the same world seems to be getting more impersonal, and lonelier.
We suppose that a simple text message of “Hi, I’m in the frozen food section of the Piggly Wiggly” is worth sending only because there is that opening for some kind of response, albeit as mundane as the message was. I’m not sure if such messaging creates the illusion of some level of badly needed intimacy, but it can also separate us further from the very world with which we want to feel in touch. Think of all those people on streets, trains, in restaurants, theaters, even in cars (even when with friends or family), who are oblivious to who and what surrounds them, because they are consumed by that little cell phone, convinced that texting or chatting is of greater import than actually being with people. My question continues to be “Why?” What emptiness is filled by that prosaic activity that we imagine to be almost as significant as our own heartbeats?
I believe that if people seventy years ago had been given cell phones and instant texting access, things would not have been any different from what they are now. In that light, I would like to share with you a passageway back to the early 1940’s during World War II, when my father, Elwood Bolinger, served in the United States Army Air Corps, and his twin brother Eddie, served in the United States Navy.
My deeply personal interest in that time comes from a couple of old hat boxes filled with over 100 letters written by my father between 1942 and 1945 to his parents, who lived in Northwest Indiana. My grandmother saved them all, and after her death, the box of letters went to my Great Aunt Viola Irvin in Pennsylvania, who gave them in 1990 to my mother, who kept them until her death in 2008. After my sister’s death in May of 2011, I inherited the letters. They speak of everything from the horrors of war and waiting daily for letters from home to the love Dad had for my mother, who became his sweetheart April 3, 1940 and his wife December 26, 1944, when Dad was on a brief leave.
He wrote hundreds of letters to my mother and to his twin brother Edward too, but those have all been lost, so I’m glad to have the letters Dad wrote to his parents with some of his feelings expressed about Mom, along with his views on the war, which was the larger context of those years for everyone in America, Europe, Great Britain, and Asia.
My Indiana blog will be devoted for a while to those communications now almost seventy years old. Dad was meticulous about dating all his letters and indicating where he was stationed at the time… bases in Pratt Kansas, Battle Creek, Michigan, Arcadia , California, Lincoln, Nebraska, London, England, or the Island of Guam. I can’t guarantee that all the details from these letters will touch you as deeply as they do me, but they may provide familiar frames of reference for those of you whose parents or grandparents served our country during those dark years of WWII.
JB
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Canasta, by John Bolinger
This card game was wildly popular during the 1940’s and 1950’s. My parents played it often with friends when they weren’t playing pinochle. I still enjoy playing the game, which works for two up to five players. Sometimes people like to play with partners if there are only four players.
Ace = 20
2 = 20 (wild card)
Joker = 50 (wild card)
Face cards = 10
8 through 10 = 10
4 through 7 = 5
Black 3 = 5 (Can’t be used in a canasta but is good discard)
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Mixed canasta (at least four of a kind plus wild cards in total of seven cards) = 300
Natural canasta ( seven of a kind) = 500
Red 3 = 100 (only after meld) or can count negatively. All four at once total 800
Red 3 = draw again
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Begin with 11 cards for each player
Begin with 50-point meld
1500-3000 points = 90-point meld
3000-5000 points = 120-point meld
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Pile of discards may be picked up instead of drawing a new card if there are at least 3 such cards on table or 2 in hand.
Wild card (placed sideways as discard) can freeze pile so that picking up occurs only with two of a kind IN HAND matching top card.
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John Bolinger’s First Writing Challenge for 2011
Too Late
Write a narrative of at least four pages describing how it feels to come back as a spirit after your own death. This is not intended to depress you, but rather to help you appreciate what you have in this life. Give it a chance, and I promise that you will be enriched by the experience. The following restrictions will apply”
1. You can see only in black and white (no color).
2. No one can see or hear you or feel your presence in any way, except through memories.
3. You have no sense of smell or taste.
4. You have no sense of touch.
5. You no longer have power to act upon anything or anyone physically in this world.
6. You can travel to any place you like by just thinking of it…and you are there instantly.
7. You may travel to any times of your life that you wish and observe whatever happened then as an “outsider,” because these times would be just shadows of the things that have already passed.
8. Your hearing is perfect.
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Do not spend much time talking about how you died. The important thing is that you see life going on without you. You have left an empty space (empty desk at school, empty bed at home, etc.). You may attend your won funeral if you wish…and describe in some detail the reactions of friends and relatives. What would it feel like to see life go on without you, like a black and white TV show? What (whom) would you miss most” Are there things you regret not doing or saying before you died? Make the reader feel the sadness you feel and the emotions you experience about having take life for granted in certain ways (not having appreciated all the simple and beautiful things that life gives us.) Use the word, “I” as you describe the whole thing and make it sound REAL. Make me weep for the beauty you feel you have lost.
At the conclusion write a paragraph about the final moments before your spirit must leave this world forever and how that goodbye feels.
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The purpose of this writing is to make you look at your own life…the good and the bad of it…and to help you see what wonderful things you have missed or just taken for granted along the way…and perhaps to appreciate a little more that life is a miraculous gift. Remember Emily from Wilder’s OUT TOWN, Jacob Marley from A CHRISTMAS CAROL, and George Bailey from IT’S A WONDERFUL LIFE. All lives are significant and filled with unspeakable beauty and possibility, even in the “smallest” ways. There is no exception. After you write the last sentence of your narrative, it should feel good to remember that your heart is still beating, and that life is still yours for making choices and making a difference in this world.
JB
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